Cultural heritage of Kashmir

Kashmiri Painting by Sana Parveen

Acrylic on canvas by Sana Parveen

Song written by Abdul Ahad Nazim (1807-65) also known as Waiz Shah Nur-ud-din

yim zar vanahas bardar,
karsana su yar boze? 

 ya tui khanjar ta mare
na ta sani shabha roze,
(At his threshold my wailing I would utter, O when will my love listen to me? I would that he did slay me, Or else requite my love)

mas dyutnam kalavalan
chivaravnas akiy pyalan
chum duri ruzith zalan
karsana dava soze
(The brewer of love gave me a cup of wine, A single cup made me delirious and drunken,
I could not contain myself for joy; But now he keeps off and causes me pain – O when will he give me another draught of the wine of love?)

kya mati goy myon kinay
atish bortham sinay
ashakh kamisana dinay
marun rava roze
(Love, why are you angry with me?
You have filled my breast with the smart of love.
Is it fair to let me suffer and die? )

bithith khalvath khanas
mushtakh panay panas
ashakh manz varanas
mashokh tanha roze
(Alone, in a lonely tower, the beloved sits, unconcerned for love; while the lover roams desolate plains, Will the beloved keep aloof from him?)

bulbul bihith ba gul
mushtakh az gul bilkul
nay rozi bulbul ta nay gul
akh lola kathah roze
( The bulbul nestles close to the rose, Doting in it and deep in love; soon the bulbul and the roses die, only a memory of love remains. )

kya mati karitham sitam!
Nizam chu praran yitam
chus tashna darshun ditam,
yi dam na pagah roze
(How cruel you have been to me! Athirst for love, I am waiting for you O come and show yourself – This hour won’t last, tomorrow brings another day)


A 16 Days Trip to Paradise : Kashmir – Ladakh – Manali

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People ask me (quite often these days) is it safe to travel solo or with your gang of girls in Kashmir and Ladakh. So I would say yes, no different from anywhere else in India but don’t walk around by yourself at night and try not to wear tight cloths otherwise guys stare at the girl wearing western in Srinagar.

Way back in 2015 when I made my first visit to this enchanted land, I think I understood what they meant by paradise. But I also thought I had seen better places. Until it hit me in the face, I didn’t realize my ignorance.
There cannot be another paradise and there cannot be another place that can compare to the beauty of Kashmir and valleys of Ladakh.

So here is my itinerary,I hope this will help

Day 1: Srinagar

On your arrival at the Srinagar International Airport, you will be taken…

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A 16 Days Trip to Paradise : Kashmir – Ladakh – Manali

People ask me (quite often these days) is it safe to travel solo or with your gang of girls in Kashmir and Ladakh. So I would say yes, no different from anywhere else in India but don’t walk around by yourself at night and try not to wear tight cloths otherwise guys stare at the girl wearing western in Srinagar.

Way back in 2015 when I made my first visit to this enchanted land, I think I understood what they meant by paradise. But I also thought I had seen better places. Until it hit me in the face, I didn’t realize my ignorance.
There cannot be another paradise and there cannot be another place that can compare to the beauty of Kashmir and valleys of Ladakh.

So here is my itinerary,I hope this will help

Day 1: Srinagar

On your arrival at the Srinagar International Airport, you will be taken for a 35 minutes drive through the heart of New Srinagar city, passing the Abdullah bridge which connects the banks of the Jhelum river. Visit the famous Mughal gardens of Nishat and Shalimar. Later drive for an hour of Shikara ride in the lake have lunch try some local dishes and proceed to “Badamwari”.If you happen to be here in the month of April you can
visit the Indira Gandhi memorial Tulip Garden, that remains open only for a few days during this time, before going to Chesham-e-Shahi.

Day 2: Gulmarg

On the second day, early in the morning at around 7 AM, leave for Gulmarg. It will take you a maximum of 1.5 hours to reach this beautiful hill station where you can enjoy a number of activities apart from sightseeing. Gulmarg is an enchantingly beautiful place with snow-covered slopes and splendid landscapes.The gondola ride up to the second phase was out of the world. Be sure to take it to the second phase for otherwise it is a waste. I could see the LOC from there and it was amazing. The snow-clad slopes were out of the  world.Return to Srinagar in the evening and enjoy a comfortable overnight stay at Hotel.

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Day 3: Pahalgam

Early in the morning leave for Pahalgam the ‘valley of shepherds’ which is situated at the confluence of the streams flowing from river Lidder and Sheeshnag lake. En route to Pahalgam visit the Awantipura ruins, an 1100-year-old temple dedicated to Lord Vishnu. On arrival into Pahalgam, we took the horse ride up to Baisaran which went through a valley full of Pine trees. The top with a large amount of flat green land & surrounded by mountains with snow top you will feel like you are in Mini-Switzerland. And then drive to Aru itself is about 40 minutes or so. The taxi driver normally gives you two hours to look around. That’s plenty. Once you get there, hire horses. The costs are fixed and they have a board displaying the amounts. Make sure you wear comfy clothes and shoes. Next, proceed to Betaab Valley. Once again, the driver will park the cab and give you an hour to look around.This is more for family outings because people take picnics there. Night stay in Srinagar.

Day 4: Srinagar

The first thing on your agenda should be the alluring Mughal Gardens.The Mughal gardens include Cheshm-E-Shahi, Shalimar Bagh, and the Nishat Bagh. All of these gardens are located in the boulevard road in Srinagar. Start with Nishat Bagh going ahead with Shalimar Bagh and then Chesham-e-Shahi.Located close to the Chesham-e-Shahi garden is the famous Pari Mahal you can spend few beautiful moments here after the
‘Srinagar garden visiting spree’.

In the afternoon you can head for the famous religious attractions in the city that will include the Shankaracharya temple, Jama masjid, dargah of Ziarati Hazrati Youza Asouph
and Hazratbal shrine.
By evening you can go on a shopping spree in Lal Chowk and the Polo View market are great shopping stops. Buy something for back home that will remind you of this wonderful day spent.

Day 5: Sonamarg to Kargil

On the Fifth day, After breakfast, proceed to Kargil via Srinagar-Leh Highway. Enjoy a short halt at Sonmarg (Known as the gateway to Ladakh & the Meadow of Gold) to admire the views. One can enjoy a pony ride to Thajiwas glacier. Notice the gradual change in the colours of the mountains as you travel to Kargil. Cross the Zozilla pass & Drass region. Visit the Zozilla War memorial & Kargil War memorial on the way to pay tribute to the Indian Army. It was in this very region in which the Indian Army fought and won the famous war of Kargil. Overnight stay in Kargil.

Day 6: Kargil to Leh

On the six days, En route, visit Mulbek (known for its huge Buddha Statue) and Lamayuru monastery (The oldest monastery in Ladakh). Admire the confluence of Indus – Zanskar Rivers and the effects of Magnetic Hill (Defiance of the law of gravity). Visit Gurudwara Patthar Sahib and Kali Mata temple and reach Leh in the evening. Overnight stay in Leh.

Day 7 : Leh

Leh local sightseeing Hemis, thiksey, Stok royal residence, SOS kids town, shey monastery and Druk White Lotus School (Rancho School). Explore the Leh market or just relax and unwind. Night stay in Leh

Day 8: Leh to Nubra

After breakfast leave for Nubra Valley, driving through Khardong-la (altitude: 18,380 ft), and then visit Sumur village, Hunder village and Samstaling Gompa(monastery) in Sumur. Later check in to your camp(in Deskit/ Hunder village) and enjoy in-house activities like dance, bonfire, barbeque.

Day 9: Nubra to Leh

On the Ninth day, visit Deskit monastery and the Sand Dunes where you can enjoy a short camel safari using the double-humped camel found there and then explore Panamic, known for its hot water spring enriched with a high amount of Sulphur.Night stay in Leh

Day 10: Leh to Pangong

Full day excursion to Pangong Lake on approx. 300 km round trip, located on the Indo-China Border, en route crossing the Chang-la pass (altitude 17370 ft.). After sightseeing around the lake, drive back to Leh.

Day 10: Leh Local SightSeeing

After breakfast, visit Shanti Stupa,Spituk, Sankar Gompa & Leh Palace and after visiting one is free to walk around in the Leh market .


“Because of cloud burst we were not able to explore turtuk and hans village so we pick the night bus 9:30pm to Manali.

Perhaps if you are traveling alone or with one or two friends, you can buy or book tickets of Manali – Leh bus service of HPTDC. I will take two days to reach and halt in Keylong.”

Day 11: Manali

Rest for a while and do nothing just enjoy the surroundings and natural beauty of Manali.

Day 12: Solang Valley and Rohtang la

Visit Solang Valley and Rohtang la, picturesque valley and very good for the nature lover and photographer. You can also enjoy paragliding, Zorbing, Mountaineering, Trekking.

Day 13: Local Sightseeing in Manali

You can visit Hadimba Temple, Manu Temple, Vashist Village, Tibetan monastery, Museum, Mall road.

Day 14: Kullu

Kullu area is known for apple orchards and trout fishing beside a range of adventure activities such as walking, trekking, and rafting. You can also visit Beas river, Nigger castle, boat club, and The Roerichs heritage.

Day 15: Delhi

Explore Delhi and Dilli food.

Day 16: Shopping and Flight back to Home.


All way lead to Pangong!

Well with Ladakh, once is insufficient, twice is insufficient, a whole lifetime is insufficient. Ladakh is the stuff dreams are made of. Street excursions can never be the same again, after a tryst with this stunning land parcel set in high sky!


Feel Good to paint one of the most Beautiful scanrios- Pangong Lake

The greater part of us who have been sufficiently blessed to go to Ladakh would’ve gone to the fantasy like yet absolutely genuine Pangong Lake. We would’ve crossed the quite often snow clad strong Chang La and would’ve savored that some tea and the warm welcome from the Indian Army on. We would’ve step by step slid into the Changthang just to have our heart skirt a beat at the primary sight of an electric blue strip and would’ve said a noiseless supplication trusting Pagal Nallah wouldn’t turn insane before the day’s over.

My new painting… Scenic beauty of Kashmir

A daytime, dusk or moonlight ride, taking in the cool air scented with the aroma of blossoms, seeing sprouting lotus blooms akin sparkling diamonds, passing floating gardens of vegetables and pausing at idyllic gardens, is essentially mystical. No outing in Srinagar is finished without a Shikara ride.


Scenic beauty of Kashmir valley through acrylic colours.

Untold story of 5 yr old Rape victim

Child-Abuse-1-500I don’t know what the question implies when it asks about the law and order and lack of restraint issue . I think there is more to this issue than just growing lawlessness .India is country where its own capital is not safe for his citizen.A five-year-old girl was abducted from outside her house and raped repeatedly by her neighbour. A 200 ml bottle and pieces of candle were inserted into the private parts of the five-year-old rape victim. In yet another shocking case of police brutality the mother of a six-year-old alleged rape and murder victim was thrashed and dragged by a cop in Aligarh. The police also baton charged outraged locals, who came out on streets and pelted stones at police and blocked traffic for hours after the body was found from a garbage dump.
The true deterrent to rape crimes (as in most other crimes) is not the quantum of resulting punishments, but the surety of punishment. Punishments can be both social and legal. In India, due to prevailing circumstances, the possibility of either kind of punishment is often fairly low, prompting some people to feel they can get away with this. This hypothesis is partly supported by the fact that rape is the fastest growth rate among crime types in India, while having the lowest conviction rates.

In fact in real terms , most of the times the husband’s forceful intercourse or intercourse when partner is not ready has never been accounted in the reported cases . Which also qualifies in the legal term as rape. Also the growing stress level , lack of sexual knowledge , social taboo on speaking on the subject in the family . Growing objectification of Women via media and advertisements . Sexuality fashion and accessories which may be fashionable , there is no denying but they are meant to be that way . As much as the guys would enjoy watching the AXE advertisements and cheerleaders in IPL advertisements . They would enjoy similarly masturbating in the washroom imagining raping/having intercourse the same models.

Adolescents left on their own to discover sex and sexual feeling often find information in porn which is either first hand or second hand via friends or so on and tend to believe that the BANG BANG in the videos or the porn sites are the way that the other world tends to open .

There are some cases where the intercourse happen with the consent of the victim on the lure of some benefit or situation such as — getting married to the guy or consensual sex . Having a mutual accepted condition to have intercourse is also accounted as rape .

imagesAlso there is an interesting fact , in fact the paid sex or prostitution is also counted as rape and there are some angles to it . You will find that the health ministry has opposed the decriminalization of the clients– not directly implying but attesting the need for sexual intercourse to exist.

May be we need to look around and ask more questions to ourselves . It has to go deeper than merely discipline people . Some of these perpetrators/future perpetrators may seem normal and we might mix with them daily . But what is it that causes their fall ?

Mein chota sa Nanha sa Rapist hu :)( – Juvenile Rape Case

Juvenile Rapist

It’s toatally unappropiate to consider him juvenile, let’s assume he has a proper birth certificate which says he was 17 years and 364 days old when the committed heinous crime where the crime is so gruesome that none of the newspapers reported what exactly happened to the victim. Had he done the same thing one day later, he would have been given life imprisonment if not capital punishment. How is that okay if a two Days time change the fate of a “juvenile” offender? Does that mean a guy can do anything at his 17 th year and escape with minimum imprisonment? If the crime is heinous or as the judicial system may put “the rarest of rare cases” there should be a
Provision in the law where the judge can take a call to decide whether he should be put to trial in juvenile court or otherwise.

Changing the juvenile age must not be looked at from the prism of crime alone, but from several other perspectives as well. However, each and every one of these concerns can be addressed without lowering the age bar for juveniles.

a. These issues can be handled by considering issues on a case-by-case basis and allowing a degree of flexibility in the way a juvenile can be tried, depending upon the severity of the crime. This would hold apply to repeat offenders as well, with each new crime being punished with an increasing degree of severity.

b. FIRs must be registered on par with the offences for crimes committed by adults. Once the juvenile crosses into adulthood, those records should not be purged but placed in classified storage with restricted access, so that the offender has a chance to redeem himself in society. The files can be fetched in case of repeat offences/offences in adulthood.

c. Juvenile reform homes should be under stricter supervision and should be checked on weekly by cops from the nearest police station, accompanied by a counselor. Fortnightly/monthly visits by human rights commission officers and higher police officials should be the mandate.
juvenile rapist
Tthe intention behind the crime, the degree of the perpetrated atrocity and the severity of the crime should be the parameters to judge a case when a juvenile is involved.Children between the ages of 14-18 years are used in organised crimes in India. They are pushed into drug trafficking, racketeering and even flesh trade. In the Delhi gang-rape case he was used to lure the victim into the bus. His involvement in the heinous crime is an alarming indicator.

Lowering the age bar would not help in any way, since we would be trying to solve a relatively minor problem by creating a number of larger problems that would affect the whole country in a blanket fashion. Misuse of the new laws might even overshadow misuse of the present juvenile law.

Am I over reacting???

tumblr_mcy3lrmELF1qi9ea7o1_500Girl : I m depress

Society: You’re  overreacting.

Girl: I cut myself

Society: It’s for attention.

Girl kills herself.

Society: we didn’t see the signs.


Girls usually hide their feelings and emotions because they think they are over reacting. Sometime we girls feel weird and uncomfortable about certain but because of this “overreacting” thing we are not able to express our-self. Well in my case I have one friend, who keep on sending me mixed signal messages, sometime he talk politely and decently, like a good friend but some time he is sending vulgar/non veg text messages.

some time I feel – It’s a disrespect thing you need to slam them immediately. They are trying to push your boundaries. They are saying things to you they would never have the courage to say to your face. Don’t put up with are lowering yourself in their eyes!

and sometimes – I feel like I m from Jupiter and over reacting about it, or may be he is not bad and just wants to irritate me. Coz friends do that…ryt???

well I m not over reacting or over thinking, I’m just telling you how i feel, I m really frustrated now and don’t know what to do….

am i over reacting?

A boy who want to dress like gals..

Well being a part of society which is fully man dominated, girls can wear the boys clothes but its unethical if boys doing the same. I know there is branch set by the society for dressing girls and boys. As far as i know it was designed to easily find the girl and boy, back in 1992, when John Gray published Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, he tapped into the public’s tremendous appetite for information about sex differences. Mars vs. Venus is about the gulf between men and women — a chasm so immense, Gray insists, that men and women may as well be from different planets.


But some people trap between these two planet, they want to be girl, they want to dress like girl but they are not gay. Today, I met with unknown guy Faraz from Pakistan, he send me message on fb-” since girls wearing boys clothes all the time, is boys can also do the same thing??” what you called the boy who loves to wear girls clothes??? I have no idea if he gets any kind of sexual pleasure out of wearing girl’s clothes but it makes him happy..this is not story one Pakistani boy but many of boys around the world suffering from the same. There parents don’t understand them, society called them eunuch, no one wants them to be their friend..

  • they are not gay but they  just adore wearing girls clothes.
  • nails polish, mehendi,  jewelry, accessories attract them
  • they like to wear all the girl clothes like bra,penty, saree,blouse, peticot, nighty,bikini, and all the thing of women
    but when no one  was  at my home,they afraid of being caught.

boy wearing gilrs clothesmy point is if a girl can wear boys dress why can’t a boy wear girls dress?I know this appears to be another example of the foolishness of Postmodernism where the denial of reality is being a good member of society. However, there are enormous functional, psychological, and physiological differences between men and women and denying these realities will not make them disappear.Children should be educated, and reprogrammed when brainwashed.

According to Deuteronomy 22:5– Holman Christian Standard Bible (©2009)
A woman is not to wear male clothing, and a man is not to put on a woman’s garment, for everyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD your God.”

But at least try to understand their sentiments, feelings and emotion. Fashion is doing a lot like different shades of jeans, floral shirts and many more but if you find any boy with this problem, try to help him. Its very easy to laugh on anyone then to understand them.