I don’t know what the question implies when it asks about the law and order and lack of restraint issue . I think there is more to this issue than just growing lawlessness .India is country where its own capital is not safe for his citizen.A five-year-old girl was abducted from outside her house and raped repeatedly by her neighbour. A 200 ml bottle and pieces of candle were inserted into the private parts of the five-year-old rape victim. In yet another shocking case of police brutality the mother of a six-year-old alleged rape and murder victim was thrashed and dragged by a cop in Aligarh. The police also baton charged outraged locals, who came out on streets and pelted stones at police and blocked traffic for hours after the body was found from a garbage dump.
The true deterrent to rape crimes (as in most other crimes) is not the quantum of resulting punishments, but the surety of punishment. Punishments can be both social and legal. In India, due to prevailing circumstances, the possibility of either kind of punishment is often fairly low, prompting some people to feel they can get away with this. This hypothesis is partly supported by the fact that rape is the fastest growth rate among crime types in India, while having the lowest conviction rates.
In fact in real terms , most of the times the husband’s forceful intercourse or intercourse when partner is not ready has never been accounted in the reported cases . Which also qualifies in the legal term as rape. Also the growing stress level , lack of sexual knowledge , social taboo on speaking on the subject in the family . Growing objectification of Women via media and advertisements . Sexuality fashion and accessories which may be fashionable , there is no denying but they are meant to be that way . As much as the guys would enjoy watching the AXE advertisements and cheerleaders in IPL advertisements . They would enjoy similarly masturbating in the washroom imagining raping/having intercourse the same models.
Adolescents left on their own to discover sex and sexual feeling often find information in porn which is either first hand or second hand via friends or so on and tend to believe that the BANG BANG in the videos or the porn sites are the way that the other world tends to open .
There are some cases where the intercourse happen with the consent of the victim on the lure of some benefit or situation such as — getting married to the guy or consensual sex . Having a mutual accepted condition to have intercourse is also accounted as rape .
Also there is an interesting fact , in fact the paid sex or prostitution is also counted as rape and there are some angles to it . You will find that the health ministry has opposed the decriminalization of the clients– not directly implying but attesting the need for sexual intercourse to exist.
May be we need to look around and ask more questions to ourselves . It has to go deeper than merely discipline people . Some of these perpetrators/future perpetrators may seem normal and we might mix with them daily . But what is it that causes their fall ?
Well being a part of society which is fully man dominated, girls can wear the boys clothes but its unethical if boys doing the same. I know there is branch set by the society for dressing girls and boys. As far as i know it was designed to easily find the girl and boy, back in 1992, when John Gray published Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, he tapped into the public’s tremendous appetite for information about sex differences. Mars vs. Venus is about the gulf between men and women — a chasm so immense, Gray insists, that men and women may as well be from different planets.
But some people trap between these two planet, they want to be girl, they want to dress like girl but they are not gay. Today, I met with unknown guy Faraz from Pakistan, he send me message on fb-” since girls wearing boys clothes all the time, is boys can also do the same thing??” what you called the boy who loves to wear girls clothes??? I have no idea if he gets any kind of sexual pleasure out of wearing girl’s clothes but it makes him happy..this is not story one Pakistani boy but many of boys around the world suffering from the same. There parents don’t understand them, society called them eunuch, no one wants them to be their friend..
- they are not gay but they just adore wearing girls clothes.
- nails polish, mehendi, jewelry, accessories attract them
- they like to wear all the girl clothes like bra,penty, saree,blouse, peticot, nighty,bikini, and all the thing of women
but when no one was at my home,they afraid of being caught.
my point is if a girl can wear boys dress why can’t a boy wear girls dress?I know this appears to be another example of the foolishness of Postmodernism where the denial of reality is being a good member of society. However, there are enormous functional, psychological, and physiological differences between men and women and denying these realities will not make them disappear.Children should be educated, and reprogrammed when brainwashed.
According to Deuteronomy 22:5– Holman Christian Standard Bible (©2009)
A woman is not to wear male clothing, and a man is not to put on a woman’s garment, for everyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD your God.”
But at least try to understand their sentiments, feelings and emotion. Fashion is doing a lot like different shades of jeans, floral shirts and many more but if you find any boy with this problem, try to help him. Its very easy to laugh on anyone then to understand them.
w hat going on India????Every morning I found my self floundering for a cherishing and happening news but all i found
- 7-year-old girl raped in school toilet in Goa
- Teenaged student raped at knife point in Delhi
- Woman from Karnataka sold for Rs.1 lakh in Delhi, raped by buyer
this is really very upsetting firing in LoC, soldier beheaded, economy crises and most important this rape cases. Is India is really a country of rapist???
Well according to me, there are two kinds of people who commit such extra ordinary odious act : genetically predisposed and the influenced.After the Delhi gang rape case i expecting reduction in crime rate or at least deduction in rape cases.But the whole protest thing will fizzle out in few days just the way the anti-corruption movement fizzled out a couple of months back.
1. The outrage is mostly limited to middle class. Indian middle class has a very short collective memory. These people are emotional and get emotionally high quickly but then get back to normal even quickly. They have consistently voted for the same corrupt and anti-national political party since independence despite their horrible performance.
2. Lack of an ideology. The current protests are purely emotional . They are not based on some wider ideology. They are not clear what exactly they want.
But what is wrong with government and law makers???? Where they are ?? what they are doing??? what are the solutions of this rape crises????