Untold story of 5 yr old Rape victim

Child-Abuse-1-500I don’t know what the question implies when it asks about the law and order and lack of restraint issue . I think there is more to this issue than just growing lawlessness .India is country where its own capital is not safe for his citizen.A five-year-old girl was abducted from outside her house and raped repeatedly by her neighbour. A 200 ml bottle and pieces of candle were inserted into the private parts of the five-year-old rape victim. In yet another shocking case of police brutality the mother of a six-year-old alleged rape and murder victim was thrashed and dragged by a cop in Aligarh. The police also baton charged outraged locals, who came out on streets and pelted stones at police and blocked traffic for hours after the body was found from a garbage dump.
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The true deterrent to rape crimes (as in most other crimes) is not the quantum of resulting punishments, but the surety of punishment. Punishments can be both social and legal. In India, due to prevailing circumstances, the possibility of either kind of punishment is often fairly low, prompting some people to feel they can get away with this. This hypothesis is partly supported by the fact that rape is the fastest growth rate among crime types in India, while having the lowest conviction rates.

In fact in real terms , most of the times the husband’s forceful intercourse or intercourse when partner is not ready has never been accounted in the reported cases . Which also qualifies in the legal term as rape. Also the growing stress level , lack of sexual knowledge , social taboo on speaking on the subject in the family . Growing objectification of Women via media and advertisements . Sexuality fashion and accessories which may be fashionable , there is no denying but they are meant to be that way . As much as the guys would enjoy watching the AXE advertisements and cheerleaders in IPL advertisements . They would enjoy similarly masturbating in the washroom imagining raping/having intercourse the same models.

Adolescents left on their own to discover sex and sexual feeling often find information in porn which is either first hand or second hand via friends or so on and tend to believe that the BANG BANG in the videos or the porn sites are the way that the other world tends to open .

There are some cases where the intercourse happen with the consent of the victim on the lure of some benefit or situation such as — getting married to the guy or consensual sex . Having a mutual accepted condition to have intercourse is also accounted as rape .

imagesAlso there is an interesting fact , in fact the paid sex or prostitution is also counted as rape and there are some angles to it . You will find that the health ministry has opposed the decriminalization of the clients– not directly implying but attesting the need for sexual intercourse to exist.

May be we need to look around and ask more questions to ourselves . It has to go deeper than merely discipline people . Some of these perpetrators/future perpetrators may seem normal and we might mix with them daily . But what is it that causes their fall ?

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Another Nirbhaya

The story of Nirbhaya shook the collective conscience of the nation. But a similar gory incident — of an 11-year-old from Sikar in Rajasthan, who is battling for life at a hospital in Jaipur after a brutal gangrape — is yet to be told.

Six persons had abducted the girl on August 20 last year from a bus stand in Sikar town. They raped and thrashed her mercilessly before dumping her on the outskirts of the town. Her private parts, say doctors looking after her, had been so brutally vandalized that she had to undergo six major surgeries and eight minor surgical procedures. Even now, her condition is critical.

Doctors recall that when she was brought to JK Lon hospital in Jaipur from Sikar on August 22, they were appalled to see the barbaric manner in which she had been violated. She had a complete perineal tear — there was no partition of muscles left between her vagina and rectum. Surgeons had to use a portion of her large intestine to create a new rectum as well as a colostomy surgery for creating an alternative channel for fecal passage. “In the last four-and-a-half months, we have tried our best to help her. Her condition had shocked each one of us,” says Dr LD Agarwal, who led the team of surgeons that performed the surgeries.

The girl, who is from Darbhanga in Bihar, is reportedly the youngest of seven children (six sisters and one brother). She came to Sikar with her mother after her father died. They were hoping that their relatives in Sikar would help them get work.

Now, after the incident, doctors say, the girl has virtually stopped reacting. “In the beginning, she was scared of injections but now she doesn’t react to anything. Her physical and mental ability is worsening gradually,” says a family member.

Despite the brazenness and brutality of the incident, what has shocked many is the apathy of the police. Till the day after the incident, family members allege, the police were refusing to even register a case. It was only because of pressure from locals who took out a protest march that the case was registered. Bihar chief minister Nitish Kumar also spoke to his Rajasthan counterpartAshok Gehlot after which the administration swung into action.

Even though six people were arrested, two have already been granted bail as the police had allegedly booked them under milder sections of IPC. Her relatives say that the rapists are politically well-connected and that the police is going soft on them. They also allege that the actual culprits are still at large.

 

I’m not your toy boys: Stop Raping girls

566142_282324178557647_253622436_nw hat going on India????Every morning  I found my self floundering for a cherishing and happening news but all i found

  • 7-year-old girl raped in school toilet in Goa
  • Teenaged student raped at knife point in Delhi
  • Woman from Karnataka sold for Rs.1 lakh in Delhi, raped by buyer

this is really very upsetting firing in LoC, soldier beheaded, economy crises  and most important this rape cases. Is India is really a country of rapist???

Well according to me, there are two kinds of people who commit such extra ordinary odious act : genetically predisposed and the influenced.After the Delhi gang rape case i expecting reduction in crime rate or at least deduction in rape cases.But the whole protest thing will fizzle out in few days just the way the anti-corruption movement fizzled out a couple of months back.

Reasons

rape1. The outrage is mostly limited to middle class. Indian middle class has a very short collective memory. These people are emotional and get emotionally high quickly but then get back to normal even quickly. They have consistently voted for the same corrupt and anti-national political party since independence despite their horrible performance.

2. Lack of an ideology. The current protests are purely emotional . They are not based on some wider ideology. They are not clear what exactly they want.im not a toy boysssssss

But what is wrong with government and law makers???? Where they are ?? what they are doing??? what are the solutions of this rape crises????images

Delhi Braveheart as Guilty as Her Rapists: Asaram Bapu

First of all I would like to start my blog with : JAi ho Asaram bapu ji, hats off to you sir… You have proven India is still run by male dominating society where men can sexually harass women and it is (surprise, surprise) the woman’s fault and dishonor, not the man’s. Women are excluded from government and from education because they were viewed as worthless unless in the home and producing babies and waiting on their husband. If a woman wishes to do anything outside of being in a home and raising kids or cleaning, she must get permission from a man (father, brother, or husband).

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Male-oriented societies are usually kept in place using laws and religions as props. Laws made by men and religions were only men are allowed to lead like take the example of spiritual guru he claimed the incident has unleashed an “anti-men” campaign and cautioned that any new law on crime against women may be misused by vested interests.


Addressing his followers recently, Asaram said that when the girl Jyoti singh pandey encountered six drunk men “she should have taken God‘s name and could have held the hand of one of the men and said I consider you as my brother and should have said to the other two ‘Brother I am helpless, you are my brother, my religious brother.’

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“The accused were drunk. If the girl had chanted hymns to Goddess Saraswati and to Guru Diksha then she wouldn’t have entered the bus…,” he added.He also went on to say, “Galti ek taraf se nahi hoti hai (mistake is not committed from one side).”

This idiot does not understand the basic of Indianness. How can one keep comments civil when you have bastards like him vomiting in media. He has abused every Indian women. He must be behind bar for the words he uttered against Damini.

Thanks hundreds of thousands of dumb man-women who follow him, made him god but an opportunity that matches his instinct make him howl like rapists.

Damini/ Nibhaya – Juvenile accused case

Seriously I still fail to understand why do rapists, who actually get caught not get inhuman punishments when they do inhuman crimes. Why our  judiciary system have so much empathy with criminals, they offered  good food, security to them??? even in capital punishment they have rule and regulation so that accused don’t hurt. Why our judiciary system is so weak??? When our Constitution of India is the lengthiest constitution in the world as no other constitution has as many articles(it has 395 Articles and 12 Schedules. A number of amendments, (about 96) passed since its enforcement in 1950, have also become a part of the Constitution, where as  constitution of  USA has 7 Articles, of China 138, Japanese 103, and Canadian 107 Articles).

According to me amendment  should be done to the Juvenile Justice act . Let’s assume he has a proper birth certificate which says he was 17 years and 364 days old when he committed that heinous crime. Suppose if  he done the same thing one day later, he would have been given life imprisonment if not capital punishment. How is that okay if a two Days time change the fate of a “juvenile” offender? Does that mean a guy can do anything at his 17 th year and escape with minimum imprisonment?

at last I wind up by this poem-

Ho gayi hai peer parvat si, pighalni chahiye,

Is himalaya se bhi koi ganga nikalni chahiye

Mere seene mein nahi, to tere seene mein sahi,

Ho kahin bhi aag, par aag jalni chahiye.